A Consultant Pediatrician, Nephrology Division at the Federal Medical Centre, Katsina, Dr. Abdurrazzaq Alege, has revealed why parents can manage a child who is still Bed-wetting after six years.
Alege said although stress is a common cause of bed-wetting in children, physical, emotional and se-xual abuse or even neglect could make children who have attained bladder control suddenly start bed-wetting.
According to him, when this happens, parents should look around the home environment, playgroup as well as school to find out the form of abuse the child is going through rather than beating or abusing the child.
Speaking in an interview with PUNCH HealthWise, the pediatrician said parents need to support their children’s bed-wetting by all means.
He told our correspondent that after attaining bladder control, bed-wetting in children has a lot to do with emotional imbalance.
Alege explained, “It majorly has to do with emotional imbalance. This could follow a traumatic experience as seen in Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder such as sudden deprivation of loved ones, witnessing a devastating event e.g fire or road traffic accident.
“Others could be in form of abuse which could be physical, emotional, s-exual abuse, or even neglect. This is more common in children with secondary forms of bed-wetting.
“A parent should worry when a child who has previously attained bladder control for more than half a year suddenly starts bed-wetting without any obvious sickness.
“One should look around the home environment, playgroup as well as the school. Tell-tale signs could include withdrawal from activities, moody appearance, loss of appetite, or poor school performance.
“Where the abuse is perpetrated by the parents, it may be difficult to make a diagnosis on time. Therefore, the teacher also has a big role to play to unravel the problems.”
The child health expert cautioned parents against the risk of beating or abusing their children’s bed-wetting, warning that it will only worsen the problem.
“A very important thing for parents to know is that bed-wetting is neither the fault of the child nor that of the parents.
“The aftermath of the abuse may persist even after the bed-wetting resolves. The child may develop low self-esteem, depression and develop poor academic performance.
“Parents are strongly advised to desist from punishing or abusing children who bed wet but rather, they should provide all the necessary support to help them overcome the problem,” he added.
Alege affirmed that bed-wetting is a curable disease, noting that most cases of bed-wetting resolve spontaneously without any intervention.
The pediatrician said, “Some affected children may have developed psychological complications during the period of bed-wetting. All these have to be addressed.”
Commenting on the treatment, the physician said treatment options available vary from lifestyle modification, psychotherapy, alarm treatment, and drug therapy.
“Lifestyle modification is usually tailored to advise on fluid intake and voiding (urinating) pattern.
“Fluid intake at night should be reduced generally. It is usually prudent to ask the child to urinate in the morning, at least twice during the school day, after school, at dinner time and just before turning out the lights and going to sleep,” the pediatrician said.
According to an online health portal, WebMD, emotional problems cause children to bed wet after attaining bladder control.
“A stressful home life, as in a home where the parents are in conflict, sometimes causes children to wet the bed. Children who are being physically or sexually abused sometimes begin bed-wetting,” WebMD says.
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