There are certain traits of men which could actually help you identify whether they are good in nature and most importantly, will be good with you in the long run or not. The following are some terrible things which your man must never do if he is a real gentleman.
10. He will never pick apart your looks
“Oh, if just you were a little slimmer”, “If your hair were a little longer”. A good man is not expected to poke on the appearance that makes you feel bad about yourself or degrading you. If your guy is doing something just like this, then he’s purposely trying to reduce your self-worth so that you don’t feel confident enough and leave him one day. It’s just his way of controlling you. So, walk, away, now!!
In a healthy relationship, you do not need to hide your Facebook messages, emails, texts, whatever from your man. But that does not mean your partner has the right to peek on these stuff once you leave your phone or computer open around them. They would be showing a massive insecurity if they ever happen to do like this. This behavior must not be ignored since it is a way of projecting their own issues and infidelities onto you.
To know if a person is confident or not, you must check on how supportive he is to others’ ambition. A good man will never be insulting or discouraging and will always be willing to help people around them.
7. He recognizes your value; you won’t need to prove it to him
You know it’s time to walk away when you feel the need to prove your worth to the significant other. You partner should be with you by valuing and appreciating for who you are, not for how well you sell yourself or how much you do for them.
A relationship must never be someone’s entire life, but it is a large part of it. We know that in many relationships women often feel much cast aside for “guy’s night” or something like that. A man must have individuality and network. But he must be cautious about leading an active social life and knocking the woman in his life further down the priority list. Take a step back and look where your relationship is going, if you spend more time waiting for him than spending time with him.
5. A good man will never make you feel alone in a relationship
Relationship denotes partnership, a two-way street, a team. They should enhance your life not complicate it. It’s time to re-evaluate if you are with the man who is complacent in love and life puts no contribution to the relationship. A person who makes you feel like he doesn’t care or is simply apathetic, one doesn’t deserve such man in their life.
There are plenty of arguments around the world about monogamy and its naturality. Human beings are not biologically wired to spend their entire life with one single person. However, regardless of the scientific fact, one thing remains true, that, monogamy depends on the personal choices made by two people in a relationship.
A man has to go back on his words or break a promise he has made in order to cheat on you. If he is a good man, he will never do anything such.
“A man of quality is not afraid of equality.” One of the most basic, simple and easy yet often overlooked characteristics of a man is how he treats the people around him. A gentleman is ought to show respect to the people around him. He will not put down or condescend anyone regardless of professional or intelligence level.
Whether it is in a relationship or between the family members, a good man understands that no problem could be resolved until it is faced. Avoiding difficulties only makes things worse. We must know the difference between choosing a battle and keeping away disagreement altogether. So that we understand when to hold them and when to fold them.
Abuse can be of many types, they certainly don’t have to be physical or just in a relationship. Some people are emotionally abusive towards pet or children as well as their partner. This comes from the desire to break another down.
A good man knows that his worth and confidence comes from within himself and not by placing others below him. If you get a sign of any type of abuse, just walk or better, run away immediately. We all deserve better!!
Don’t make excuses for those who don’t treat you well. Figure out if you are really with a self-respecting decent human being or not. Only then, you will be treated with the perfect amount of compassion and love which you deserve.